For an awfully long time, in fact, it’s so long that I don’t remember anything different, I have always stopped myself doing things that would bring me happiness or a moment of what feels like selfishness. I have been putting a much higher priority on task-based achievements or appeasing other people’s needs before my own. The great thing about finishing a task (even if it ultimately makes me more tired or stressed) is that I can see the results and I’ve found that  ...