There’s always a battle when trying to get my toddler to go where we need to go, to eat what we’d like her to have for lunch, or when choosing what to wear.   I (and when I say ‘I’, I mean my wife read a pile of parenting books and distilled it down for me) have found that when you tell a child what’s happening, what they have to eat, or what they’re going to wear, the child automatically wants to test boundaries and rebel.   We’d start  ...